Tutorial - How to make the most out of the Lord of Chat

1. Become a Member
The majority of the content is only available to registered users. The Lord of Chat is a community of like minded adults interested in alternative adult lifestyles. To become a member of the community you will need to sign up. Membership is free. The only personal information we request is a valid email account (Which is never shared) in order to validate your registration.

2. Create your Personal Profile
Whether or not you are a couple, everyone should complete their profile. All the fields in the profile are searchable by other members. The more details you provide the more likely another couple looking for the same thing will find you. There is a field to add a short description of yourselves. You can describe the type of swinging that interests you. Reveal your sexual orientation. Express your unspoken desires. Have some fun at the same time.

3. Add a Profile Picture
One of the best ways to get noticed is to add a profile picture. Profiles with pictures are seen as more legitimate, more real, more honest. If you're feeling a little shy, there's no need to put your smiling face up. Be creative... Show some creavage, the curve of your neck, your abs... Wear a hat, hide your features with you hair... More creative is more notice...

4. Find your friends on the Lord of Chat
Do you already know people on the site? Add them as 'Friends of Chat'. Simply navigate to their profile (You can use the 'Search Member Profiles and Site Content' Link to help you find them.) and click on the add as a friend link. You can create your own network of friends within the members of the Lord of Chat.

5. Invite your friends to become members of the Lord of Chat
Do you have swinging friends looking for a site to call home? Invite them to join the Lord of Chat. Click on 'Invite your friends to become members of the Lord of Chat'. You will be able to send them a personalized message inviting them to join. Also, once they accept, they are automatically added as a 'Friend of Chat'.

6. Add some Personal Images
Show off a little. Be as daring as you like. This is another opportunity to give a little more 'insight' into who you are, and what you want.

7. Use our other tools
Participate in the forums, join in a chat conversation, browse the web links (and add a link, if you want), browse upcoming events.

Help make this site what you want it to be. This is a real community, with real people. Even the banners are from real members, not images off the web. If you want to meet real swingers, interested in real swinging, this is the place.

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