Swinging 101

So you're taking your first steps into the swinger lifestyle you've always wanted. You've discussed the possibilities with your partner, and he or she is as eager to begin as you are.

Now is the time to join the Lord of Chat, and meet your match. Whether it's bringing another woman into your bed for the first time, just having another sexy couple in the same room while you play, or enjoying soft or full swap with other open and fun-loving couples, the Lord of Chat is the community for you! Joining the swinger lifestyle can lead to life-long friendships, and some truly exciting swinger vacations.

Take things at your own speed. Find Lord of Chat members with similar interests, and arrange to meet up with them for dinner and some laughs to see if the chemistry is right. Perhaps you'd like to get to know some older and more experienced swinging couples? There are many of our members that we're certain will be happy to show you the ropes, even if you've never considered ropes before. Seriously though, describe your swinger fantasies in vivid detail and you will get matches closer to what you're really looking for in the swinger lifestyle. Browse through our swingers' personal profiles, and discover ideas you've never even dreamt of before...

Voyeur? Exhibitionist? Soft or Full Swap?

For the ladies it could be time for the first all-girl night at a strip club, the first time with another woman while your hubby watches, or a whipped cream party at a local swing club. Take a step into the wild life you hear others whispering about!

Learn more about the swinging lifestyle

Is swinging for you?

A little about swinging etiquette

Chat? Get to know people online first

Using your personal profile to meet other swingers

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