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This web-site has grown out of an idea to provide a 'home' for the growing number of swingers in Ontario. My wife and I live and have been active in the Ottawa region. Ottawa hosts two prominent swingers clubs, plus another that is more for the BDSM crowd, but there was no place to gather for the many couples and individuals who do not wish to attend any of these organized venues. Even among club goers, there was a call for a place to visit where they could display a personal profile, interact with other swingers and like-minded adults, network and flirt, all without the need for hefty monthly membership fees or attending a club.

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It soon became clear to me that what people are looking for is a dedicated swingers site where they can create on-line relationships, and discreetly or overtly investigate other couples and individuals... Basically, meet other people in a safe place before moving to actual face-to-face contact (or face-to-breast, or face-to-ass, or...). So the idea behind this site has evolved... The chat area has become less important than each member's personal profile page. Your profile now gives members a better insight into who your are as an individual or couple... It showcases your wants and desires... It displays your latest images... It allows members to contact you directly and privately within the site. While visiting another's profile, you have the ability to add the other member to your 'Friends of Chat' list, keeping them close to you. You can also invite your swinging friends to become Lord of Chat members from within the site. (They become instant members of your 'Friends of Chat' list when they accept.)

Here's what members are saying about the Lord of Chat:

Would just like to say you are doing a great job on the website, I can see you have invested lots of time and making things work, with nice and tidy layout, have built my own site and know how much time go's into it. Great Job.

Great site.

I like the idea that it is directed at people in our area. Adult Friend Finder tends to be kids trolling for pics.

Thanks for the note and good site we're glad to be onboard.

This is not a 'picture site', or a porn site. There is no central gallery area. Your profile displays your latest photos and images. The images in each person's personal profile reflect who they are and what they are about This photos and images can be daring or vanilla, explicit or censored, depending on the member. If you're looking for a site to find pornography or other sexual images, I suggest you move to one of the thousands of sites that provide just that.

The Lord of Chat is not an on- or off-premises swingers club. We are a community of like-minded adults seeking adventures in alternative adult lifestyles. I encourage you to promote your parties, meet and greets, and nights out on the prowl. Don't be afraid to tell the community that you'll be at the rear bar in Maxwell's in Ottawa this Saturday. Or that you're planning a meet and greet at MacLaren's on Elgin, and to look for the couple wearing the candy bracelets by the wide-screens...

Membership is free. We won't ask you to 'upgrade to gold' at every turn.

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Note: This is a site intended for an adult audience. People under the age of majority in their location, or who are uninterested or offended by information of a sexual or adult nature should not join this site. For information on what swinging is all about, check out our 'Swinging 101' section on the menu. If you would like to see how you can make the site work for you, check out our tutorial on the subject.

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